
Pearl Alba-Donapel stands up to discrimination with knowledge of US culture and society. CONTRIBUTED SAN FRANCISCO — “I grew up in a small village in Sangat, M’lang, Cotabato where television was nonexistent and there was no electric power,” recalls Pearl Alba-Donapel, 41. Now she is raising her kids in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, where she stands up to any form of discrimination by being proud of her heritage and challenging herself to be armed with knowledge. Growing up in a farming village without electric power at night did not hinder her education. Pearl walked five kilometers to attend a Catholic high school in Cotabato. After college, she went to Davao City to work. In 2001 she met her husband, Steve, now 46. Eventually, they became engaged. Pearl flew to Philadelphia in 2002 where they got married on October 12, 2002. Marrying an American does not make an immigrant an instant citizen. It took five years before Pearl got her citizenship. She was a full-time mother to Chynna, Stephen and Christian Matthew. Her husband owns a commercial plumbing company and rents and sells flipped houses. In mixed marriages cultural differences cannot be set aside. Pearl has to struggle on this too, but in the end mutual respect and love tend to prevail. “My husband likes to express himself and (is) straightforward. I am not used to it. In our culture if you have a displeasure with something, you choose your words wisely and sometimes, we, Filipinos tend to hide it to avoid confrontation Read More …