
What is success to you? This is a question I often ask in my seminars. This gets the participants thinking. It is a very simple question, yet many find it profound and hard to answer. Many people want to be successful, but they have not taken the time to identify and settle the things that would constitute success for them. Maybe, success is a moving target. Real successful people never arrive at the stage where they would consider themselves successful because they keep on moving higher. Now, here is an exercise I want you to do. Think of the five most successful people you know. These are people you interact with and not familiar faces you see in websites, TV or magazines. Then list down qualities that you think make them successful. Then ask them if they would consider themselves successful or not. Business ( Article MRec ), pagematch: 1, sectionmatch: 1 Now that you have listed the five most successful people you know, this time I want you to think of the five happiest people you know. Would the five people in your success list be the same five people in your happiness list? Is the point clear? The popular view is that success deals with possessions and achievements. In a way, it is. But it is illogical to equate success as being happy. Happiness is a state of being. I may be wrong, but if you look at the people who are in your happy list, it is Read More …