DEAR MR. EPPY, I don’t know how I got the nerve to send you this letter about me and my lovely wife of 14 years, but I finally sent it. I don’t have the guts to tell this story to anyone else. I don’t know why, but you are the only one I can share this with even if I know you will publish this. My wife and I were once very active sexually. I think my relationship with my wife is unique and no one else in the world has the same situation as ours. I have a wonderful and faithful wife. Now, we will be celebrating our 12th anniversary. We have four kids. My wife is younger than me by 25 years. I feel she needs more sex than what she is getting, but I cannot provide it for her anymore because of my age. After sex, I become too tired. I realize it is unfair to her. So I gave her freedom and told her to find sex outside our marital bed. She got angry and didn’t speak to me for 10 days. I apologized to her and she accepted. She thought that I was tired of her and our family. But this is not the case. I felt sad that I could not provide the sexual happiness she deserved. I wanted her to be happy. But then I gave her rules on how she must go about this so our family would not be compromised. Read More …
A faction of a party-list group that won in the May 2013 elections has asked the Supreme Court to cite in contempt three Commission on Elections (Comelec) commissioners for their failure to proclaim the group. Godofredo Arquiza, the leader of one of the factions within the Coalition of Association of Senior Citizens Inc. (Senior Citizens), said in a press conference Monday that his group has filed an urgent motion before the Supreme Court to cite Comelec chairman Chairman Sixto Brillantes Jr. and commissioners Lucenito Tagle and Elias Yusoph due to their refusal to proclaim the group as a winner in the party-list elections despite a Supreme Court ruling ordering the Comelec to do so. Arquiza said his group had no choice but to run to the Supreme Court to settle the issue since the Comelec has not heeded the Court’s order to proclaim Senior Citizens as a partylist. “Sa Supreme Court na kami nag-file ngayon ng case dahil itong [ginagawa ng Comelec] ay ‘di na tama… July 24 pa nagsabi ang SC na dapat kaming i-proclaim pero hanggang ngayon hindi pa rin [ginagawa ng Comelec]. Yung Comelec, dinefer pa nila ang pagpo-proclaim sa amin at ni-refer pa kami sa RTC [Regional Trial Court] para raw ma-settle na yung issue,” he said. The Comelec said in a resolution issued last week that it cannot proclaim Senior Citizens since its two nominees, Arquiza and Francisco Datol Jr., “abused their authority to usurp leadership over Senior Citizens from one another.” Arquiza and Datol Read More …
We usually get advice from people we look up to and trust: an expert, a self-help book author, our boss, our spiritual adviser, or our closest friends. But how many times do we heed the advice that we get? “Most advice is terrible. Nine times out of 10 it’s about as useful as a screen door on a submarine,” psychologist Heidi Grant Halvorson once commented. Good advice is authentic, tangible and makes the advice seeker follow a process. If we are the advice giver, we have to be extra cautious in giving it, and it should be based exclusively on our experience. If the advice needs to be executed differently, we have to specify what needs to be done and how it should be done. Bad advice can leave the recipient aggravated, perplexed, or headed down the erroneous trail. If done wrongly, the situation can move from bad to worse. George Lois’s Damn Good Advice (for People with Talent is an anthology of concepts that motivate us to discover new boundaries in the area of big ideas, the way to find them, to sell them and to produce them. Lois, dubbed as advertising’s original “Bad Boy,” created memorable, in-your-face campaigns that changed the fate of brands companies and personalities. Here are inspiring, shining wisdom from his tome that can set free our latent creativity. • A big campaign idea can only be expressed in words that absolutely bristle with visual possibilities. These words link up with a visual imagery, and together Read More …
Vic Sotto and the cast of the 2013 Metro Manila Film Festival entry “My Little Bossings.” MANILA, Philippines – Vic Sotto said he is open to constructive criticism amid the negative feedback and reviews received by his film “My Little Bossings.” “My Little Bossings,” an entry in the 2013 Metro Manila Film Festival, was met mostly with scathing reviews. Among them was writer-TV5 news personality Lourd de Veyra’s “’An Open Letter to Vic Sotto,” published in a lifestyle website early this month. RELATED: What Pauleen Luna likes about Vic Sotto The essay, which criticized “My Little Bossings,” tells the “Eat Bulaga” main host: “Ngayon ikaw ay nasa maimplumensiyal at makapangyarihang posisyon. Kaya mong gumawa ng mga pelikulang makabuluhan, isang pelikulang maipagmamalaki ng lahat sa punto de bista ng kultura at estetiko.” Although he has not read the said open letter by de Veyra, Vic said, “Maganda siguro kung dineretso niya sa akin.” “I’m open to all criticism, lalo na kung constructive,” he said in a taped interview with GMA-7’s showbiz talk show “Startalk” aired Saturday, January 18. Entertainment ( Article MRec ), pagematch: 1, sectionmatch: 1 RELATED: MMFF 2013 earns over P900M in 12 days Vic added, “Ito yung tinatawag nating demokrasya, e. Nire-respect ko ang opinyin ng sinuman. Ganun din ang pagrespeto ko sa milyun-milyong nanood at nasiyahan at natuwa sa aming pelikula.” The 59-year-old comedian said he does not mind the bad reviews. “Ang mahalaga e record-breaking ang festival itong na ito,” he said.
From left: Kim Pajares, Reyna Yamanouchi, Raine de Guzman and Carin Ramos of Krazy Chikz Some people might think that to be called “crazy” is a bad thing. But it has been said that the best people are the crazy ones — which is a saying the Krazy Chikz believe in. The Krazy Chikz is a song-and-dance group of four beauty queens discovered in the 2012 Miss Casino Filipino pageant — finalist Reyna Yamanouchi, third runner-up Carin Ramos, second runner-up Kim Pajares and winner Raine de Guzman. Their group was created to become in-house performers at Casino Filipino branches all over the country. They got their name from the fact that the way they perform is quite unusual, to say the least. According to Bong Quintana, PAGCOR AVP for Entertainment, they patterned the Krazy Chikz after one of the most successful entertainers in showbiz. “Para silang si Anne Curtis, pero times four,” he says. The ladies of Krazy Chikz hope that audiences will embrace them in the same way they buy Anne’s album and flock to her concerts. “We hope one day to have our own album with original songs and be able to do a music video,” says Raine. Raine used to be an aspiring pop singer. Before she was Miss Casino Filipino 2012, she was part of the girlband Eurasia. She also tried her luck in beauty pageants. “I joined Binibining Pilipinas in 2009, same batch with Bianca Manalo. I also joined Miss World Philippines and Mutya ng Read More …
CHRISTIAN Bale-starrer “America Hustle” and science-fiction movie “Gravity” lead the 86th Academy Awards nominations with 10 nods each. The official list of Oscar nominees was announced by Academy President Cheryl Boone Isaac and actor Chris Hemsworth on Thursday evening (local time) at Samuel Goldwyn Theater in Beverly Hills, California. Bale is nominated in the Best Actor category alongside “12 Years a Slave” actor Chiwetel Ejiofor, “Nebraska’s” Bruce Dern, and acting heavyweights Leonardo DiCarpio (“12 Years a Slave”) and Matthew McConaughey (“Dallas Buyers Club”). Mean time, “Gravity” star Sandra Bullock will compete in the Best Actress category together with Amy Adams (“American Hustle”), Cate Blanchett (“Blue Jasmine”), Judi Dench (“Philomena”) and seasoned actor Meryl Streep (“August: Osage County”). Here’s the complete list of 2014 Oscar nominees: Best Picture:“American Hustle”“Captain Phillips”“Dallas Buyers Club”“Gravity”“Her”“Nebraska”“Philomena”“12 Years a Slave”“The Wolf of Wall Street” Best Actor:Christian Bale (“American Hustle”)Bruce Dern (“Nebraska”)Leonardo DiCarpio (“The Wolf of Wall Street”)Chiwetel Ejiofor (“12 Years a Slave”)Matthew McConaughey (“Dallas Buyers Club”) Best Actress:Amy Adams (“American Hustle”)Cate Blanchett (“Blue Jasmine”)Sandra Bullock (“Gravity”)Judi Dench (“Philomena”)Meryl Streep (“August: Osage County”) Best Supporting Actor:Berkhad Abdi (“Captain Phillips”)Bradley Cooper (“American Hustle”)Michael Fassbender (“12 Years a Slave”)Jonah Hill (“The Wolf of Wall Street”)Jared Leto (“Dallas Buyers Club”) Best Supporting Actress:Sally Hawkins (“Blue Jasmine”)Jennifer Lawrence (“American Hustle”)Lupita Nyong’o (“12 Years a Slave”)Julia Roberts (“August: Osage County”)June Squibb (“Nebraska”) Animated Feature Film:“The Croods”“Despicable Me 2”“Ernest & Celestine”“Frozen”“The Wind Rises” Best Director:David O. Russell (“America Hustle”)Alfonso Cuaron (“Gravity”)Alexander Payne (“Nebraska”)Steve McQueen (“12 Years a Slave”)Martin Scorsese (“The Wolf of Wall Read More …

Parents and relatives of the rescued children allegedly victims of Cyber Pornography cover their faces from press photographers and TV cameramen as they rush to the Women and Children Friendly Room in the NBI office for questioning after they were invited during the rescue operation with the US Homeland Security, NBI, Provincial Women Commission and PNP at the Municipality of Cordova. CDN FILE PHOTO LONDON—British police are working with Australian and US counterparts in breaking up a Philippine pedophile ring that has been streaming live scenes of child abuse over the Internet, the National Crime Agency (NCA) revealed on Thursday. The NCA, which has been investigating the ring since it discovered obscene videos on a British pedophile’s computer two years ago, called abuse in developing countries “a significant and emerging threat.” “This investigation has identified some extremely dangerous child sexual offenders who believed paying for children to be abused to order was something they could get away with,” said the agency’s Andy Baker. “Being thousands of miles away makes no difference to their guilt,” he said. “Protecting the victims of abuse is our priority and that means attacking every link in the chain, from dismantling the organized groups who are motivated by profit through to targeting their customers.” The inquiry—called Operation Endeavor—has covered 12 countries and led to the arrest of 17 Britons, five of whom have been convicted. Fifteen children aged between 6 and 15 have been rescued in a raid in Angeles City in the Philippines and several Read More …

by Myrna Aquitania Myrna Aquitania Newshen colleague Lydia Solis, her sister Lulu Alcayde and I once experienced joining the senior outing tour sponsored by Alhambra’s Joslyn Recreation Center. They usually sponsor a couple of different tours every month. We were lucky to have joined one of LA’s “hidden treasures,” the Hsi Lai Temple tour in Hacienda Heights. It was a whole day’s worth of not only pleasurable and exciting but a spiritual experience as well. We boarded a passenger-packed luxury coach on an early weekend morning in front of the Recreation Center and we reached the Temple within half an hour where the view on top was exhilarating. Joslyn Recreation Center has recently published their 2014 tours and I truly recommend taking advantage of these inexpensive (minimal fees range from $12.00 to $20.00 per person, meals not included) outings because they’re really worth the minimal fee that went along with it. Following is the schedule this year: Farmer’s Market and The Grove on Friday, January 10th and the Pechanga Resort and Casino on Thursday, January 23rd. Registration for this tour was already done in December but you can check for availability of space by calling the Center at: 626/570-5056; In February, the outings include: Queen Mary, 9:30 am to to 4:00 pm, February 7th, fee $25.00, and the Getty Villa, 9 a.m. to 4:30 p.m, February 21st, fee $12 Registration just ended on January 7th, but again you may check with the Center for availability of space. The historical nature of the Queen Mary tour brings you back Read More …
MANILA, Philippines – KZ Tandingan started her new year on a high note after she bagged the P1M jackpot prize on ABS-CBN’s The Singing Bee last Jan. 11. KZ bested fellow challengers and singers Frenchie Dy, Sitti Navarro, Duncan Ramos and Nyoy Volante, and four-week defending champion Miss International 2013 Bea Rose Santiago. KZ is the second millionaire for the current season of The Singing Bee following Sheryl Cruz, who also won the P1M jackpot last December. After KZ’s victory, The Singing Bee is again in search of its new champion, or new millionaire, this week since the championship seat has been unoccupied. Cast members of ABS-CBN’s newest sitcom Home Sweetie Home John Lloyd Cruz, Toni Gonzaga, Sandy Andolong, Rico J. Puno and Jayson Gainza take a break from comedy as they try their luck in the hit musical game show on Jan. 18. Who among them will win and become the new defending champion? Will one of them again take home the P1M jackpot prize? The Singing Bee, hosted by Roderick Paulate and Amy Perez, airs Saturdays after It’s Showtime.
A US judge sentenced a former personal secretary to Imelda Marcos Monday to two to six years in prison for conspiring to sell Impressionist masterpieces belonging to the Manila government that vanished when Ferdinand Marcos was ousted. But Justice Renee A. White of the New York State Supreme Court in Manhattan said Vilma Bautista, 75, who has a pacemaker and chronic heart disease, could remain free on $175,000 bail while her lawyers appeal, the New York Times reported. White also ordered Bautista to pay $3.5 million in income taxes she owes to New York City and to New York State. He said she failed to report $28 million she obtained from selling one of the paintings, a famous Claude Monet water lily work, to a London gallery, which then resold it to a hedge fund manager in Switzerland. Bautista’s lawyer, Fran Hoffinger, said the court should impose no jail sentence because of her frail health. Hoffinger pointed out that paramedics had wheeled Ms. Bautista out of the courtroom on a gurney twice during her five-week trial after heart palpitations and fainting spells. “Incarceration for her would be a death sentence, or at least a life sentence,” Hoffinger said, according to the Times. It took a jury less than three hours to convict Bautista in November of conspiracy and tax fraud in connection with the sale of the Monet piece, “Le Bassin aux Nympheas” (1899). The painting had been taken along with three other works in late 1995 from the walls Read More …